A man who subjected a woman to nearly two years of emotional and physical abuse — including spitting in her face and slashing a child’s cot — has been jailed following a conviction at Maidstone Crown Court.

Cameron Blakeley, 29, launched a relentless campaign of intimidation, control, and violence against the victim after they met in July 2022. The abuse took place primarily at the victim’s home near Tonbridge, Kent.

Blakeley’s behaviour included constant verbal insults, surveillance-like control, and public humiliation. He repeatedly demanded to know the victim’s whereabouts, made degrading comments about her appearance, and belittled her in front of friends and family.

On one occasion, he used a craft knife to slash a child’s cot, and several incidents were committed while he was under the influence of alcohol and cocaine.

When the victim tried to leave the relationship, Blakeley bombarded her phone with calls and messages in an effort to regain control.

He was arrested on 5 August 2024, two days after a violent outburst at the victim’s home, during which he spat in her face, headbutted her, pulled her hair, and warned her, “If you call the police, watch what will happen.”

At Maidstone Crown Court, Blakeley pleaded guilty to charges of controlling or coercive behaviour and criminal damage. A further charge of assault occasioning actual bodily harm was ordered to lie on file.

On 11 April 2025, he was sentenced to two years and one month in prison. Upon release, he will be subject to a five-year restraining order prohibiting contact with the victim.

‘A Life of Fear and Humiliation’

Detective Constable Jennifer Mitchell, who led the investigation, praised the victim’s bravery and urged other survivors of abuse to come forward:

“People like Blakeley make victims’ lives an absolute misery. He used constant abuse, fear, and threats of violence to control almost every aspect of this woman’s life.

Her courage in coming forward helped us build a strong case, and we are pleased justice has been served.

Tackling domestic abuse remains a key priority for Kent Police, and we urge victims to contact us or support organisations. You are not to blame, and help is available.”

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, support is available through Kent Police on 101 (or 999 in an emergency), or confidentially through services like Refuge, Women’s Aid, and Victim Support.