Ex-Met Chief Superintendent Slams Question on Female Violence Against Men
Raj Kohli, a former Met Chief Superintendent with 29 years of experience, fired back on Twitter after being asked if there’s a lead officer for female violence against men. Kohli had tweeted praise for PC Michelle Harris’s work tackling male violence against women in Winchester when a responder challenged him with the question.
Raj Kohli’s Fierce Response: “Not a Genuine Question”
“Be honest. It is not really a genuine question, is it? It might be worth you asking your female friends & relatives about how many of them carry keys in their hand when walking home, amending when and where they walk, texting friends about getting home safely, about their concerns about walking past groups of men.”
“Or the stats which show women are hugely disproportionately likely to be victims of sexual assault, domestic abuse or sexual harassment. Men are NOT afraid of women. Men are NOT targeted by women, simply for being women.”
“When was the last time a man was abducted by a woman he doesn’t know? You don’t need me (a man) to explain the experiences of women – ask them.”
“But as a man, I have a responsibility for accepting that men need to own their role in this. Yesterday was the 20th anniversary of the abduction & death of Milly Dowler at the hands of a man who targeted women. Milly is sadly yet another female who died simply for being a woman. So, back to your point – not a genuine question at all.”
Championing Equality and Awareness
Supt Kohli is a strong advocate for equality in Hampshire, often speaking out at events on the societal disadvantages women face today. His approach highlights the harsh realities women endure daily, contrasting them with the experiences of men.
Support Available for All Victims of Abuse
The platform Reducing the Risk acknowledges domestic abuse affects both men and women but highlights men often struggle more to seek help due to fewer support networks. They say:
“Men may find it harder to cope with the emotional impact of domestic abuse. Admitting to being abused is difficult for anyone, but men often lack social and support systems to open up to friends or family.”
“Phone lines like the Men’s Advice Line offer confidential support.”
For all victims, the message is clear:
- You are not alone.
- It is not your fault.
- Help is available.
Helplines and Support Services
- Victim Support Website: 123
- Women’s Aid – Victims First Website: www.victims-first.org.uk Phone: 0300 1234 148
- Revenge Porn Helpline Website: revengepornhelpline.org.uk Email: [email protected]
