A German referee who publicly proposed to his boyfriend during a Bundesliga clash was savagely attacked at his own home — just minutes after police told him he was safe.
Proposal Sparks Deadly Threats
Pascal Kaiser, an amateur referee and passionate FC Cologne fan, popped the question to his partner Moritz in front of 50,000 fans at the RheinEnergieStadion. Their viral moment followed FC Cologne’s 1-0 win over Wolfsburg, with the club proudly sharing the romantic video on Instagram.
Kaiser’s heartfelt words echoed across the stadium: “I don’t want to hide. I want to be visible. I want everyone to see that I love this person. A man. As a man. In football. Will you marry me?”
But the love story took a dark turn days later, when Kaiser started receiving death threats — some naming his own home address.
Ignored Police Warnings, Then Violent Attack
Despite raising alarms with the police, who assured him he faced “no danger,” Kaiser was violently attacked on his property just 20 minutes after their last safety check. While enjoying a cigarette in his garden, three men reportedly launched a brutal assault.
Showing off a bruised black eye on social media, Kaiser says the attack was clearly a backlash against his public proposal and LGBTQ+ advocacy.
Championing LGBTQ+ Visibility in Football
Pascal came out three years ago and has since dedicated himself to encouraging others in football to live openly. He told Schwulissimo magazine, “I see this as my mission: to create visibility. To be a voice. And to encourage people who aren’t yet brave enough to speak up.”
He added poignantly, “I know how lonely it can be to think you’re the only one. I want no one to have to feel that way again.”
Ongoing Investigation into Assault
The German police have yet to confirm details about the attack or any arrests. The chilling incident underscores the stark reality that, despite growing acceptance, LGBTQ+ figures in football can still face brutal hostility.
Fans and fellow players alike have rallied behind Kaiser, but his ordeal shines a harsh light on the dangers LGBTQ+ individuals face in the world of sports.
