Man Terrifies Girlfriend with Ruthless Control and Abuse Leaving Her with PTSD
Windsor Man’s Twisted Reign of Terror
Douglas Martin, 42, from Winkfield Lane, Windsor, unleashed relentless bullying and intimidation on his girlfriend during their three-year relationship. The victim was trapped under Martin’s iron fist, suffering acute anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result.
Martin dictated her every move—where she could go, who she could see, and what belongings she was allowed. Anything he didn’t approve of in their home was thrown away without question. Even household chores had to meet his impossible standards or face his sharp verbal abuse.
Christmas Tree in the Garden? Because No Decorations Allowed Indoors!
In an extraordinary display of control, the jury saw a photo of a Christmas tree the victim was forced to decorate outside the house—because Martin forbade any decorations inside.
And it wasn’t just about possessions. The court heard chilling recordings of Martin’s nonstop verbal assaults. His aggressive tirades were designed to belittle, dominate, and crush any sense of independence.
Justice Served with Suspended Sentence and Rehab
Martin was found guilty of coercive controlling behaviour. Judge handed him an 18-month suspended jail sentence and ordered him to attend rehab courses, including lessons on how to build healthy relationships.
Speaking after the trial, the victim revealed, “Living in constant fear made me physically ill—heart palpitations, nausea. Coercive control is happening to so many who don’t realise it’s abuse. I hope my story helps others recognise they don’t have to endure it.”
Police Urge Victims to Speak Out
Investigating officer Natalie Ridley praised the victim’s bravery. “Her courage helped bring Martin to justice. If someone controls your life in every way, that’s coercive control. Don’t suffer in silence. Support is available, and we’ll go after these offenders.”
Warning Signs of Coercive Control
- Controlling your money or giving you a tiny allowance
- Stopping you from working or studying
- Dictating what you wear
- Controlling your eating and sleeping times
- Constantly putting you down, calling you worthless
- Isolating you from friends and family
If you or someone you know is suffering, don’t wait. Get help now and break free from abuse.
