Totton Man Caught in Dark Online Chat Sting
Mark Anthony Mengham, 60, from Alfred Close, Totton, was slapped with a suspended jail sentence today at Southampton Crown Court. He was convicted for trying to engage in sexual conversations with a supposed child online between December 2020 and January 2021.
Shocking Chats with ‘Child’
The court heard Mengham exchanged a string of highly sexual messages over several weeks. The victim repeatedly said they were just 13 years old — though crucially, this “child” was not real but part of an undercover operation.
Police swooped on January 15, 2021, charging Mengham with attempting sexual communication with a child, attempting to incite a female child under 13 to perform non-penetrative sexual acts, and trying to cause a 13 to 15-year-old to view sexual images.
Sentence and Serious Restrictions
- Mengham was sentenced to nine months in jail, suspended for two years.
- He faces five years on the Sex Offenders Register.
- He received a five-year Sexual Harm Prevention Order.
- Ordered to complete 40 days of Rehabilitation Activity.
- Must pay victim surcharge and court costs.
Police Warn of Online Dangers
Detective Constable Paul Hills said: “In today’s digital world, it’s easy to message strangers anywhere, but we’re watching closely for any criminal acts. This conviction shows we’ll go to great lengths to protect vulnerable kids from online predators.”
“Social media can hide dangers lurking behind innocent chats. Parents must stay alert—what starts as normal messaging can fast turn dark and sexual.”
“We urge all victims of child sexual abuse to come forward, no matter their age.”
How to Protect Children Online
Hampshire Constabulary stresses the importance of vigilance. If you suspect a child is at risk, call 101 to speak confidentially with specialist detectives. In emergencies, dial 999 immediately.
Parents are urged to monitor the apps and privacy settings their kids use. Remember, online “friends” may not be who they say.
For anonymous support, contact the Lucy Faithfull Foundation or call the Stop It Now! helpline at 0808 1000 900.
