Man who bullied partner into fear lands suspended sentence
Douglas Martin’s controlling reign revealed
Douglas Martin, 42, from Windsor, subjected his partner to relentless intimidation and bullying over three years. The victim suffered acute anxiety and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result.
Martin controlled where she could go, who she could see, and even what belongings she could keep, trashing anything he deemed unacceptable. Household chores had to meet his harsh standards — slip up, and he unleashed a torrent of verbal abuse.
Christmas tree in garden – not inside
The court heard chilling details of Martin’s control. He forbade the victim from decorating indoors, forcing her to put a Christmas tree outside instead. Recordings played in court captured his relentless verbal berating, designed to belittle and dominate her.
Justice served – but support still vital
Martin was found guilty of coercive controlling behaviour and handed an 18-month suspended prison sentence. He must attend rehabilitation, including a course on healthy relationships.
“Coercive controlling behaviour is happening to so many people who don’t realise they are experiencing domestic abuse,” the victim said.
“I want those people to read what I have been through, recognise similarities in their own relationships and understand they don’t have to endure it. They can find the strength to say enough is enough.”
Investigating Officer Natalie Ridley added: “This verdict is thanks to the victim’s courage in coming forward. If someone controls how you live any part of your life, that is coercive control. You don’t have to suffer in silence.”
Signs you’re being controlled
- Someone controls your money or limits your allowance
- Stops you from working or studying
- Makes you wear certain clothes
- Dictates when you eat or sleep
- Constantly puts you down, calling you worthless
- Isolates you from friends or family
If you recognise these signs, help is available. Find support and report domestic abuse here.
