Abusive boyfriend fakes terminal cancer to control partner – jailed for choking and violence
Three-year torture ends with prison sentence
An abusive boyfriend from Sittingbourne has been locked up after a sick three-year campaign of lies, control, and violence. Kevin Bevis faked a terminal cancer diagnosis to manipulate his partner, even choking her during violent attacks.
Faked illness to trap victim in toxic relationship
Between October 2016 and December 2019, Bevis imposed strict rules in the woman’s home, including limiting when she could see her own daughter. By early 2018, he claimed he had stomach cancer and was attending hospital appointments. Sometimes, he dragged the victim to waiting rooms for extra convincing.
He even wrapped his arms and head in bandages and took tablets he claimed were cancer meds. By 2019, Bevis ramped up the deception, saying the cancer had spread to his brain and faking pain—sometimes in front of the victim and her child.
He also told friends and colleagues he was dying. The victim, believing his lies, stayed to care for him—enduring his constant abuse and control.
Violence escalates with choking and death threats
In late 2019, Bevis assaulted the victim twice, beating her and throttling her by the neck. He threatened, “I’ll kill you and myself anyway, I’ve got nothing to live for.”
When police were informed on 19 December 2019, Bevis was arrested and confessed he faked the illness out of fear she would leave him.
Justice served: Jail and restraining order
Bevis, 38, of Woodside Gardens, Sittingbourne, pleaded guilty at Maidstone Crown Court. On 11 August 2020, he was sentenced to 18 months in prison and slapped with a five-year restraining order.
“Bevis went to incredible lengths to deceive and control his victim,” said PC Christopher Williams. “She even took on extra jobs so he didn’t have to work, believing she was caring for a dying man. He caused her huge distress, fear, and anxiety.”
“We’re grateful for her courage in coming forward and securing this conviction. If anyone suffers this kind of abuse, support is available.”
